For many expans, Cyprus is not only a sunny climate and Mediterranean cuisine, but also the opportunity to feel like a part of a warm and open community. However, integration into local culture requires time, attention and effort. What do you need to know that relations with Cypriots outgrow from a polite “Kalimer” into real friendship?
Cyprus hospitality is not a formality. If you were invited to the house, this means that you really want to see you there. A refusal can be perceived as indifference, so it is better to accept an invitation, even if you have little time. You will meet coffee, a snack, and often domestic wine. Behind this is not just a desire to observe social norms, but a genuine desire to communicate and establish contact.
Language plays a huge role. Almost all Cypriots own English, but this does not mean that you can completely refuse to study Greek. The possession of them at least at the basic level is perceived as respect for culture and the desire to become closer to local residents. Often, it is attempts to use Greek that become the first step to a more trusting relationship.
An important discovery for many is the local rhythm of life. Rushing someone or showing impatience is not the best way to establish contact. Long conversations, long -term dinners and the ability to listen to the interlocutor are appreciated here. Such a leisurely rhythm of communication helps to build friendship based on attention and trust.
Family and traditions occupy a central place in Cyprus life. On large holidays, especially on Easter, families gather at a large table, eat lamb, eggs, flaun cakes and other treats, the house is filled with noise and laughter. Even if you do not consider yourself a believer, interest in religious holidays and customs will be perceived positively.
In Cyprus, small signs of attention are of great importance. If the neighbor treated you with hallumi of your own preparation, return the plate with something with your own, even with simple fruits or cookies. These gestures create an atmosphere of reciprocity. In Cyprus villages and urban areas, it is customary to help each other: to look after the house, watering flowers during departure, help with minor affairs. Such mutual support strengthens confidence and turns neighbors into friends.
For all openness, the Cypriots value respect for personal space and national identity. It is important to avoid harsh criticism of the country, politics or religion, especially at the first stages of acquaintance. With more trusting communication, you will probably hear a lot of criticism of the authorities and individuals, but in such conversations it is better to adhere to a neutral position. It is worthwhile to behave even more accurately when discussing the Cyprus problem and events that led to the section of the island. The history of Cyprus is complex, and these topics should be discussed only when confidence has already been established between people.
Friendship with Cypriots can be built not only through neighboring relations, but also through participation in the life of the community: sports clubs, cultural events, church, volunteering. Cypriots love when foreigners show interest in their island, and do not live in their isolated world. This is valued and rewarded with sincerity and warmth.
Good neighborhood in Cyprus is the art of little steps. A little tongue, a little participation, the willingness to be open and respectful, and the island will cease to be just a place of temporary residence. He will become a home where not just neighbors, but friends live next to you.
